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November 30, 2012


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ohmyfuckinggod OK TO PATCH THINGS UP??

Journal Entry: Fri Nov 30, 2012, 12:09 PM
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Alright because so many people want to fucking fIGHT ABOUT IT ON MY DEVIATIONS FUCK wow it's annoying as balls

Okay, :iconshibutts: is FTM, Female to male transgendered, she is biologically female, but her self identification is male.

No, this doesn't mean I'm ''Lesbian dating a boy'', she is still biologically female, which is what I am attracted to, romantically, sexually and emotionally, it wouldnt be the same if it was MTF [Male to female] because the male anatomy and parts and whatnot v.s my sexual attraction [lesbian],

No, Caspar [Shibutts] doesn't want to get a penis, so it doesn't change anything, she's a transgender female.

Now, I would appreciate it if you guys called her a he, it makes her more comfortable and more self-belonging. Now why am I using female pronouns with her? Because of how long I've known her, and my sexuality, using male pronouns to the one I have sexual, romantic and emotional feelings for makes me uncomfortable because well thats pretty self explanatory.

The only people she wants using female pronouns around her [calling her a she] is Catlyn [DallyMally] and I.

The rest of you, I request you DO NOT Call her by her real name, I don't care if you see me doing it, because again she only feels comfortable with Catlyn and I doing it.

If you can please refer to her, as a he/him, and call her either Ethan or Caspar [Caspar she uses the most] that'd be greatly appreciated.

Now let's not argue about fucking genders and sexualities anymore because frankly it's no one elses fucking business ughguhsk.


So people telling me that I'm being rude and ignorant for using female pronouns on my partner when I HAVE CLEARLY STATED SHE IS OKAY WITH IT?? She is ONLY okay with Catlyn and I using female pronouns for her, BUT NO ONE ELSE, We have already discussed this, we talked a whole lot about it and I EVEN PESTERED HER, Many, upon many, upon many of times if she wanted me to use male pronouns for her, she said no, she only want's others and people online using them, and she only feels comfortable with Catlyn and I using female pronouns for her.

DO NOT try putting words or feelings into my partner, I think I'd know her more than any of you. You don't HAVE to transition to be a fucking transgender, you don't have to take fucking hormones to be a transgender, you don't have to go through surgery to be a transgender, you DONT HAVE TO use any sort of pronouns to be transgendered, there is no fucking rules and laws you have to abide to be trans.

For the some of you calling me ignorant and selfish for using female pronouns when Caspar had said it herself, plenty of times to me, that it IS OKAY, and that she feels COMFORTABLE with only catlyn and I doing it, you need to STOP thinking about how YOU would feel or NAYONE ELSE, because THIS isnt ABOUT YOU, this is about CASPAR and I was CLEARING UP the gender confusion.

Stop trying to start pointless fucking fights, it's seriously pathetic and you look fucking retarded for trying to shove your feelings and opinions onto and into someone elses life and try controlling and saying how they feel.

Here have some fucking logic.……


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yiffin Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2014
This is so old if I see any new comments on this because of that link I will bite every ankle.
Gloriousphilia Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2014
This is the new comment. May I be bit on my ankle? :meow:
yiffin Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2014
//gnaws on your sweet sweet ankle
Gloriousphilia Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2014
Oh my goodness, the pain! My sweet ankle! :noes:
periodbleed Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2013
all this is making me very constipated
TricksterShibas Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
being transgender doesn't work like that

being genderfluid doesn't work like that

being lesbian doesn't work like that

and all I get from that is that the only thing that matters to her about caspar are his genitals
Eonby Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well you seem to know what youre talking about.
Lesbian is dating only females right, like not at all being attracted to men, so technically she wants him for his genitalia.
Gender fluid is where youre biologically one gender, but you can mentally switch between the two and behave between the two right,
and transgender is basically being one sex and wanting to be called the other because you feel like the other right?
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